For others there may be deep, psychological reasons that go beyond my ability to understand. For some it's a way to add a little more excitement to their love life.
If you asked a hundred people you'd probably get a hundred different answers. Each person must decide how much and how far this exchange of power will go but the rules of "safe, sane and consensual" must always apply. The methods and levels of submission are infinite. This must be a willing act on the part of the submissive or the boundaries of abuse have been crossed. It's allowing someone else to control your body and behavior within certain preset limits. So what is it? Submission is the act of surrendering some or all of ones personal power to another person. Submission isn't a fad or a role playing game that we see so often online and at clubs, and you aren't a submissive because you like to be tied up and have kinky sex once in awhile. All of these things are interesting and amusing but they are not a true picture of what it's all about. You can find collars and leather fetish items being worn by the rich and famous or you can have dinner in one of New York's newest, trendy restaurants that features all the trappings of the lifestyle dungeon, complete with submissive waiters and waitresses.
There's even a fashion and cultural trend based on some of the facets of the BDSM lifestyle. Being a "submissive" has become very popular in the D/s, BDSM fad that is sweeping the chat rooms and websites. Submission is a word that we hear tossed around pretty often lately but I often wonder if most people really understand what it means.
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